Safety & Security Tip #10 - Child Safety ‘Game’
This is a longer tip, but it may be one of the most important posts you ever read if you are a parent.
My dad was ahead of his time. He made these six things into a game starting about age two. I didn’t know it was safety. It was a fun game. Our neighborhood has an alarming number of “escapees” on weekends. Please teach your little ones your names and phone numbers, so you can be located as soon as possible in the event of an emergency or abduction.
When asked for the facts below, we find that most children will look to their parents for a response or refer to their phone. We don’t always have our phones or the “parental database”. Granted, Wi-Fi seems to be everywhere; however, there is a chance that your child will not be able to access their stored data. What if they lose their phone? What if it is stolen? What if they drop it in the toilet (it happens more than I want to mention)? What if they are thrown in a pool or fall into a lake? What if the battery dies? I cannot begin to tell you how many adults I know that have done all of these things.
For those of you who have continued to require your children to recite safety information, kudos to you! For everyone else, please begin teaching your kids basic important safety facts. Then, periodically ask them to recite these facts to you. This process ensures your kids’ personal information will be able to be given to other adults in case of an emergency.
Here are six personal information facts I believe all children should to memorize:
1) Parents' and/or Guardian’s Full Names – Many parents do not share the same last name or use a nickname for their first name. Children should know their parents’ legal names. The same thing is true with guardians and non-custodial parents.
2) Home Address – Our society is very mobile and changing addresses occurs frequently. Each move should be accompanied by learning, memorizing, and reciting the new home address.
3) Home Phone Number – The trend to ditch home phones has continued to grow; however, if a home phone exists, that number should be memorized. This line remains a constant dependable number that does not rely upon remembering to charge it. If you don’t have a home phone number, then you can substitute a landmark like their school.
4) Parents’ Phone Numbers – While playing on the phone, kids sometimes get a sudden urge to call Grandma and push the speed dial. This is another excellent learning opportunity. Before I knew my numbers, I learned the pattern they made on the phone. Thank goodness we don’t have rotary dials anymore! Make sure they know your number. Every phone number a child memorizes increases the speed of being able to reach a family member in an emergency.
5) Parents’ Work Numbers – Many parents who work outside of the home may need to store their phones away during work hours. A business phone may be the best way to reach them if parents are in a meeting or unable to reach their mobile phones. We recommend your child learns to call your office if they need to reach you more urgently. Many times the need will not actually be urgent, but that’s another story! Every child should know where their caregivers are and how to reach them.
6) Where Parents' Work – Hopefully, no one would ever need to physically get to you, but have you ever heard of Murphy’s Law? Well, it’s real. I am a retired security professional, so when a phone call came in for anyone that was urgent it was part of my job to locate the employee and ensure they safely made it to their destination in the event of an emergency.
BONUS POINTS – Work addresses for Mom and/or Dad – Usually simply stating the name of the workplace in a specific city is more than enough to find your office, but an address? That’s golden. If grandparents, close friends, and/or a trusted neighbor are in the area as well, then you can loop them in too. I am the “neighborhood mom,” so the kids know that I can get their parents in case of emergency. Plus, I have movies and junk food. Do your kids have a safe and trusted neighbor? Their parents drop by regularly to reacquaint their children with me and my family.
I realize this list seems extremely simple; however, many children know which phone key has saved phone numbers for family members. They rarely type out the numbers and struggle to recite these vital facts. In my experience, with repetition and praise, children learn quickly.
Technology is a beautiful thing, but it must not replace personal relationships.
